No Sex Marriages
The typical story -
"When we first met ten years ago, we could not keep our hands off each other. Sex was amazing and was the highlight of our day. We would use every excuse and opportunity to escape to the bedroom, playing and carrying on for ages.
When it was over we would just lie in each others arms and talk till the urge hit us again and it was a repeat performance.
Ten years later we are lucky if we even have sex 2 or 3 times a year. It has become a 10 minute affair. Apart from the quick sex that happens so seldom, there is little or no other intimacy in our relationship. We seldom chat and never even hold hands or kiss anymore.
I have tried everything possible to reignite the passion in our marriage but nothing seems to work. I feel so rejected and unloved."
According to research results just released by Relate, a top UK couples counselling organisation, no sex marriages are on the increase. In the research it was found that the amount of men who no longer wish to have sex with their wives has increased by 40% over the last ten years.
Further surveys indicated that 25% of women over 35 years of age do not have sex.
Needless to say, a release of findings such as those above, have caused a torrent of comments, blog posts and articles with hundreds of responses and comments with plenty of mudslinging as to why there is no longer any sex in the marriage.
A quick summary of the comments indicate that there are many common causes of these no sex situations. here are some of the more popular reasons quoted.
1) Weight Gain. The person that I married has increased and I am no longer attracted to them.
2) Nagging . How can you feel sexually attracted to someone who is always nagging you about everything.
3) Pornography. It is so much easier to get satisfaction from the freely available material on the net which requires no commitment back.
4) Loss of libido. Surprisingly few remarks were from men who admitted that they no longer had a sex drive.
Weight Gain Destroys Sexual Desire.
"When we first met ten years ago, we could not keep our hands off each other. Sex was amazing and was the highlight of our day. We would use every excuse and opportunity to escape to the bedroom, playing and carrying on for ages.
When it was over we would just lie in each others arms and talk till the urge hit us again and it was a repeat performance.
Ten years later we are lucky if we even have sex 2 or 3 times a year. It has become a 10 minute affair. Apart from the quick sex that happens so seldom, there is little or no other intimacy in our relationship. We seldom chat and never even hold hands or kiss anymore.
I have tried everything possible to reignite the passion in our marriage but nothing seems to work. I feel so rejected and unloved."
According to research results just released by Relate, a top UK couples counselling organisation, no sex marriages are on the increase. In the research it was found that the amount of men who no longer wish to have sex with their wives has increased by 40% over the last ten years.
Further surveys indicated that 25% of women over 35 years of age do not have sex.
Why Men Do Not Want Sex With Their Wives.
Needless to say, a release of findings such as those above, have caused a torrent of comments, blog posts and articles with hundreds of responses and comments with plenty of mudslinging as to why there is no longer any sex in the marriage.
A quick summary of the comments indicate that there are many common causes of these no sex situations. here are some of the more popular reasons quoted.
1) Weight Gain. The person that I married has increased and I am no longer attracted to them.
2) Nagging . How can you feel sexually attracted to someone who is always nagging you about everything.
3) Pornography. It is so much easier to get satisfaction from the freely available material on the net which requires no commitment back.
4) Loss of libido. Surprisingly few remarks were from men who admitted that they no longer had a sex drive.
Weight Gain Destroys Sexual Desire.
Sex is all about the five senses. For sex to really be great and steamy, the senses have to be aroused. Sight is one of the major senses and yes, extra weight can really be unappealling.
Men are especially sight driven. They are attracted to a good figure and a pretty face. Admittedly women are more emotionally driven and even though sight does not play as big a role, it still does play a role in sexual attraction.
Keeping your body in shape for your spouse is part of the deal in a relationship. You need to maintain your good looks, not only for your partner, but for your self as well. It is hard to feel good about yourself when you know that you know longer look or feel good.
If you are not proud of your body and do not even wish to put on a revealing outfit or swimsuit anymore due to embarrassment, how an you then expect your partner to still be excited at the sight of your body?
Get your body back into shape and you will get your spouses attention back. Phen375 can help to make it easier for you.
Nagging wives and dominant husbands was the second biggest stated cause of no sex in marriages. How can you be sexually attracted and romantic towards someone who is always telling you to do this or that and how useless you are?
One of the biggest pieces of advice that I give to married people who are having marital problems is "what changed to cause your partner to no longer love you?"
Yes, there are kids and added responsibilities, but these factors should really add to the strength of a marriage and not detract from it. When you really sit down and ponder this question and realise that with every finger pointed there are at least three pointed back at yourself, you may be amazed at what you may discover about yourself.
"I used to be whitty and fun, always joking, but now I am a slouch who is only interested in my computer and work."
"I used to be loving and caring, listening to my partners problems and giving them sympathy, but now i don't have time to listen to them anymore."
"I used to take her out and spoil her often, chocolates and dining out, but now I don't do this anymore."
Return to the fun person that your partner once fell in love with and you will soon find that they begin to return to being the person that you fell in love with.
Pornography
The competition between cyber sex and real sex is hotting up. Cyber sex is becoming increasingly more popular due to the lack of responsibilty involved with it. My advice is to keep well away from anything that you would not allow your kids to watch or look at.
Relationships develop love, while pornography promotes lust. What is the difference between love and lust.
Love is when you will do anything at your expense to satisfy the needs of your partner.
Lust is when you will do anything at your partners expense to satisfy your own needs.
When in love, you do all that you can to make your partner happy. The words "I" and "Me" should not even be a part of your vocabulary.
A quick test to see how much is love and how much is lust in your realtionship. Try to go for a day or two without saying the words "I" or "Me". It may be far more difficult than you think.
Loss of libido
Although loss or lack of libido was one of the less common causes stated, the lack of libido in both men and women has become a major problem.
It is estimated that over 30 million men in the United States suffer from some form of inability to reach or maintain an adequate erection. Further estimates state that nearly 60% of men over the age of 50 are experiencing erection problems.
Women have been far more open in revealing the fact that their libido's do not match that of their partner, but men are traditionally very sensitive about the fact and usually will not discuss the matter with anyone, not even their partners. They would rather withdraw from any contact that may lead to a sexual encounter, leaving their wives feeling rejected and unloved.
There are ample good and efficient supplements available to Enhance male libido and increase female libido. These supplements are far cheaper than divorce so use them to get your libido back up to scratch. They may even transform your sexless marriage into a steamy affair again and provide the closeness that you should have in your life.
If your marriage has become dull and sexless, perhaps you need to start taking the bull by the horns and make some changes.
Become what you used to be to get the sex that you used to have.
Men are especially sight driven. They are attracted to a good figure and a pretty face. Admittedly women are more emotionally driven and even though sight does not play as big a role, it still does play a role in sexual attraction.
Keeping your body in shape for your spouse is part of the deal in a relationship. You need to maintain your good looks, not only for your partner, but for your self as well. It is hard to feel good about yourself when you know that you know longer look or feel good.
If you are not proud of your body and do not even wish to put on a revealing outfit or swimsuit anymore due to embarrassment, how an you then expect your partner to still be excited at the sight of your body?
Get your body back into shape and you will get your spouses attention back. Phen375 can help to make it easier for you.
Nagging Wives and Dominant Husbands.
Nagging wives and dominant husbands was the second biggest stated cause of no sex in marriages. How can you be sexually attracted and romantic towards someone who is always telling you to do this or that and how useless you are?
One of the biggest pieces of advice that I give to married people who are having marital problems is "what changed to cause your partner to no longer love you?"
Yes, there are kids and added responsibilities, but these factors should really add to the strength of a marriage and not detract from it. When you really sit down and ponder this question and realise that with every finger pointed there are at least three pointed back at yourself, you may be amazed at what you may discover about yourself.
"I used to be whitty and fun, always joking, but now I am a slouch who is only interested in my computer and work."
"I used to be loving and caring, listening to my partners problems and giving them sympathy, but now i don't have time to listen to them anymore."
"I used to take her out and spoil her often, chocolates and dining out, but now I don't do this anymore."
Return to the fun person that your partner once fell in love with and you will soon find that they begin to return to being the person that you fell in love with.
Pornography
The competition between cyber sex and real sex is hotting up. Cyber sex is becoming increasingly more popular due to the lack of responsibilty involved with it. My advice is to keep well away from anything that you would not allow your kids to watch or look at.
Relationships develop love, while pornography promotes lust. What is the difference between love and lust.
Love is when you will do anything at your expense to satisfy the needs of your partner.
Lust is when you will do anything at your partners expense to satisfy your own needs.
When in love, you do all that you can to make your partner happy. The words "I" and "Me" should not even be a part of your vocabulary.
A quick test to see how much is love and how much is lust in your realtionship. Try to go for a day or two without saying the words "I" or "Me". It may be far more difficult than you think.
Loss of libido
Although loss or lack of libido was one of the less common causes stated, the lack of libido in both men and women has become a major problem.
It is estimated that over 30 million men in the United States suffer from some form of inability to reach or maintain an adequate erection. Further estimates state that nearly 60% of men over the age of 50 are experiencing erection problems.
Women have been far more open in revealing the fact that their libido's do not match that of their partner, but men are traditionally very sensitive about the fact and usually will not discuss the matter with anyone, not even their partners. They would rather withdraw from any contact that may lead to a sexual encounter, leaving their wives feeling rejected and unloved.
There are ample good and efficient supplements available to Enhance male libido and increase female libido. These supplements are far cheaper than divorce so use them to get your libido back up to scratch. They may even transform your sexless marriage into a steamy affair again and provide the closeness that you should have in your life.
If your marriage has become dull and sexless, perhaps you need to start taking the bull by the horns and make some changes.
Become what you used to be to get the sex that you used to have.
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